william1000
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Post by william1000 on Dec 18, 2007 16:36:16 GMT -5
Hi Gregg Thanks for your comments on my log. I was feeling very tired when I last wrote there. Its something I need to be conscious of. Tiredness can affect you in many ways. I can weaken resolve and make someone look at things more negatively. Its good to get a little support every so often. Congrats on going over 100 days. Another month or so and I will achieve that milestone. Best of luck with your course I know what its like to balance everything, work, family, study. Its good you have gotten rid of one time wasting hobby. It certainly does free up time. Have a good christmas Kind Regards William
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gregg70
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Post by gregg70 on Dec 19, 2007 14:46:31 GMT -5
I finished my interview today and I am sitting here waiting the flight back home. The interview went well and I really felt good about it. I gave alot of thought in how to best present myself to the interviewers. My wife and I worked on a presentation and I know they were impressed. Thanks Wifey, you are the best!
I will not know until after the holidays whether or not I am offered the job.
Sitting here, I came up with a thought to ponder. How do you present yourself to the world? Is it natural? Is it rehearsed? I thought about scenarios for my interview but I showed them the genuine me in the interview. If I was a fake, they would find out soon enough.
What about the world? I know there are men on here that have the PA as most of us do. They have not told their wives about it. They surf P and (as far as they know), their wives do not know any better of it. Once I was able to face my problem, I needed the support of my wife. I wonder what would hurt the woman more: finding out that her husband had a PA or finding out that he knew and had admitted the problem for years and still did not tell her? What does that say about trust? I am not talking about the part where the man does not want his wife to know he looks at P, I am talking about the part that he does not trust her to support and help him.
What about the rest of the world? Your children? If they knew what you were doing, would they approve?
What about your family, co-workers, and neighbors? Who are you to them?
Ok now that we are thinking about PA and how it relates to that, carry it further. What about your character, morals, and even personality. Are you two different people? Three? For some it could be 4 or more.
I am not judging others as I have given thought to how I relate to this too. I do wonder about others here however as it is human to do so. I can see that some here might be like a feather drifting from here to there and taking on a different shade or shape to suit the surroundings. What does that say?
How does it relate to the PA? I think it relates alot especially with those that are running from true feelings, or attachments to others. Those ignoring pain and trying to drown it viewing images and videos. Retreat, retreat, retreat... you can hear the calls.
How do you view yourself?
Gregg70
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gregg70
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Post by gregg70 on Dec 20, 2007 23:14:28 GMT -5
Quick update. I was offered the position! We have not finalized the pay package yet and it will not be formally announced until next week.
I will have a few months of hard work not to mention My wife will be giving birth to our new son.
I have so much to be thankful for. God is so wonderful. He has blessed me a 100 times over.
Gregg70
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Post by Mayberry on Dec 21, 2007 5:57:18 GMT -5
Congratulations!
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Post by rockwell on Dec 21, 2007 9:54:42 GMT -5
Congrats Gregg!
Be on alert. Sometimes it is when we are on that high that temptation can become a bear. Try to stay on the mountain top, cuz its a long way to the bottom, and falling hurts!
I am sure you will be fine. I am glad things are going well for you.
rockwell
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gregg70
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Post by gregg70 on Dec 22, 2007 20:29:00 GMT -5
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