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Post by lostgirl on Jul 20, 2006 11:26:48 GMT -5
Hello, I am new to this forum, and quite disappointed that I even have to pay it a visit because of problems I'm having with my SO. We have had an on and off relationship for nearly the last year, and it's been long distance. I feel like a lot of the people who've posted here. It's obvious that I might feel disgusted, somewhat angry, inadequate, and clueless as to what I'm supposed to do about all this. My boyfriend is a PA and MA (I think). I have confronted him about it, and asked him what his reasons are for doing these things, and he says loneliness and insecurity are the causes of his addiction to this stuff. I'm just here looking for support and advice on what I can do to help us both in this troubling time in our relationship. I would like very much to continue our relationship and potentially marry this man. But I worry that 10 yrs down the road, the same things will occur. I'm frustrated and lost, please help!
Lost And Confused
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Post by findingjoy on Jul 20, 2006 11:52:30 GMT -5
Lostgirl,
Can you start your own thread where others can see your story and post to it? This thread is intended to be a source of general info for new members. That's not entirely clear to new people, so I thought I'd mention it. Sometimes new members post here and no one notices so they don't get replies.
fj
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Post by lostgirl on Jul 20, 2006 13:22:52 GMT -5
Ok, thanks.
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Post by stinkerbell on Aug 4, 2006 18:34:58 GMT -5
Hi everyone... first timer here! I am a spouse of a Porn addict
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Post by stinkerbell on Aug 4, 2006 18:38:48 GMT -5
I to found out about hubby online porn..I have his passwords to some of his sites and I am spying on his posts on certain forums and it is not pretty. I too am heart broken to tears... have not confronted him on this yet but I have been printing out all his posts to show him..just waiting for a good time to blow him out of the water.
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Post by findingjoy on Aug 4, 2006 19:39:19 GMT -5
stinkerbell,
Can you start your own thread where others can see your story and post to it? This thread is intended to be a source of general info for new members. That's not entirely clear to new people, so I thought I'd mention it. Sometimes new members post here and no one notices so they don't get replies.
Thanks!
fj
(by the way I had to spy on my H - now my ex - to find out what he was up to as well. And you're right, it's NOT pretty)
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