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Post by fisharner on Apr 28, 2004 22:48:30 GMT -5
I, like many others, have made that decision many times and have never been successful. I read somewhere that we all have quit thousands (if not more) times. The key is not starting again.
Anyways... 11 hours and still counting.
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Post by blinded on Apr 29, 2004 0:43:01 GMT -5
Well, I just had a long talk with my SO, including a lot more details about what I have been into and done. Things are not perfect, but she is willing to forgive me and help me to get clean and sort things out, which is more than I deserve.
It's getting late now, which means I need to get away from this machine and turn it off for the night.
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Post by detrmnd on Apr 30, 2004 16:19:54 GMT -5
blinded,
It sounds like you're on a good path and you have a strong person beside you. But she may need some support along the way, too. Tell her about the other side of this board, which is for the partners. Some find a lot of comfort in it. My wife knows about it, but has chosen to not view it. For us, it seems to be going well, but I can't say that we're the typical case.
Peace,
detrmnd
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Post by Picacho on Apr 30, 2004 16:44:06 GMT -5
blinded and fisharner:
Keep it up! I am new here too and it is nice to know that you guys are going through some of the same things as I am. You give me strength to know I can succeed and I know you can to. We can all point to things in life where we have achieved and succeeded. We can do the same with this. I know it is worth it because of the way I feel about myself and my relationship with my wife when I am clean. I have failed many times myself but I really believe there will be a time when I am in total control of my thoughts and actions and will be able to live free of my addictions. I know I can do it and I know you can too. Stick around and lets keep supporting each other.
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