Post by swisha on Dec 7, 2007 19:43:27 GMT -5
It's the fourth time quitting porn has failed so I figure its about time I actually COMMIT myself to ending my addiction! ;D
Life has been very 'trying' the last few months beyond anything I have ever suffered and I have never been so close to suicide as last night.. having said that I think I'm over the hump (the fact I'm writting proves that) and I am optimistic about life. yaay!
Who Am I
I am ______ _ ________ a k a Swisha and I am 18, in my last year of sixth form, I think that is high school in the states. I live in England and my parents emigrated from a foreign strange place.
I don't want to scare people away with a tumult of bio details because its just so messy and complicated when relating it to masturbation via pornography - the 'output' if you like of my problems.
What have been my problems?
Well, a violent father could be the biggest, but if I blame him too much, then I become an Escapist because MOST of my problems originate from within, of course.
He used to be violent to my mother, my sisters and me and one time the police and social services got involved when we got very scared. We actually phoned the police, I made a written statement because I desperately wanted to push him away out of my mind. I blame him probably for more than is due because my childhood has been such an entire confused MESS.
Mentally my father is such a WEAK man that I can't bare to push him away any longer, becos I know his entire life has been to do the same thing - Work, work, work ('for us' he says)
There is a proverb: It is harder for a rich man to get into heaven than a camel to fit through the eye of the needle, Bible/Koran I think and the family has been crippled because we all lost direction.
My dad just worked and worked and worked and he is a doctor and he made his patients more of a priority than himself because he was so blind to anyone else. His colleagues love him because they don't know how sick he treated us.
SO maybe masturbation was an escape route for this. Lots of pain and no way to express it means a few seconds of stress-free bliss are craved, even if i become more stressed after wards.
ARGHHHHH problems!!!
IT's just such a big (expletive)ty mess all of it, and i want to rip my hair out!
On sunday night I got violent and started ripping my house up, i literally destroyed my door (lol) because I was so frustrated at something that happened last week.
(My dad began living with us one week after the police incident)
-To understand the following, you must bear in mind I think my dad may be mad and my parents originate from a big cess-pit of a nation where a STRICT social hierarchy is God -
My dad was getting exasperated when he was concerned of my sister's 'chastity' there are no curtain in her room cos it is being decorated and he was shouting and swearing becasue he thought 'everyone is looking' while she was sleeping. he cannot say anything outright because if he actually said 'paedos are watching' or something like that than he knows he is crazy. He simply rants about dignity, and shame and decency.
...yes that face you just made, is the one I pulled
I went more crazy than him at this, my language was probs more violent, more offensive becos I am naturally so protective of my sister.
I lost it the next day, I thought I have invested so much in protecting and building up the confidence of my family and he is here to destroy it so I went livid.
The next night I 'attacked my room' in a frenzy put fists and feet through the door and insisted my dad isn't returning that night. He didn't becos he scared, he got a hotel after more swearing on the phone, and the next 3 days were calm, blissful, and there was finally peeeeaaaaacccceeeee. ahhhhhhh
but it couldnt last becos my dad depends on us unbearably. mayb he is psycho but he thinks he must commit suicide if he cannot use us as a crutch or whatever, i don't particularly understand anything..
EVERYTHING is such a mess.
Masturbation is just like some tiny part of all my problems. I mean I don't do drugs or anything despite all the calamities.................
I am deciding to use this diary as an alternative to porn. I can write a new entry every time I feel temptation.
also if you have actually read to the end of this congrats it must be rather unnerving. advice and tips are most welcome. Thank you for reading.....more voyages on the way!!
Life has been very 'trying' the last few months beyond anything I have ever suffered and I have never been so close to suicide as last night.. having said that I think I'm over the hump (the fact I'm writting proves that) and I am optimistic about life. yaay!
Who Am I
I am ______ _ ________ a k a Swisha and I am 18, in my last year of sixth form, I think that is high school in the states. I live in England and my parents emigrated from a foreign strange place.
I don't want to scare people away with a tumult of bio details because its just so messy and complicated when relating it to masturbation via pornography - the 'output' if you like of my problems.
What have been my problems?
Well, a violent father could be the biggest, but if I blame him too much, then I become an Escapist because MOST of my problems originate from within, of course.
He used to be violent to my mother, my sisters and me and one time the police and social services got involved when we got very scared. We actually phoned the police, I made a written statement because I desperately wanted to push him away out of my mind. I blame him probably for more than is due because my childhood has been such an entire confused MESS.
Mentally my father is such a WEAK man that I can't bare to push him away any longer, becos I know his entire life has been to do the same thing - Work, work, work ('for us' he says)
There is a proverb: It is harder for a rich man to get into heaven than a camel to fit through the eye of the needle, Bible/Koran I think and the family has been crippled because we all lost direction.
My dad just worked and worked and worked and he is a doctor and he made his patients more of a priority than himself because he was so blind to anyone else. His colleagues love him because they don't know how sick he treated us.
SO maybe masturbation was an escape route for this. Lots of pain and no way to express it means a few seconds of stress-free bliss are craved, even if i become more stressed after wards.
ARGHHHHH problems!!!
IT's just such a big (expletive)ty mess all of it, and i want to rip my hair out!
On sunday night I got violent and started ripping my house up, i literally destroyed my door (lol) because I was so frustrated at something that happened last week.
(My dad began living with us one week after the police incident)
-To understand the following, you must bear in mind I think my dad may be mad and my parents originate from a big cess-pit of a nation where a STRICT social hierarchy is God -
My dad was getting exasperated when he was concerned of my sister's 'chastity' there are no curtain in her room cos it is being decorated and he was shouting and swearing becasue he thought 'everyone is looking' while she was sleeping. he cannot say anything outright because if he actually said 'paedos are watching' or something like that than he knows he is crazy. He simply rants about dignity, and shame and decency.
...yes that face you just made, is the one I pulled
I went more crazy than him at this, my language was probs more violent, more offensive becos I am naturally so protective of my sister.
I lost it the next day, I thought I have invested so much in protecting and building up the confidence of my family and he is here to destroy it so I went livid.
The next night I 'attacked my room' in a frenzy put fists and feet through the door and insisted my dad isn't returning that night. He didn't becos he scared, he got a hotel after more swearing on the phone, and the next 3 days were calm, blissful, and there was finally peeeeaaaaacccceeeee. ahhhhhhh
but it couldnt last becos my dad depends on us unbearably. mayb he is psycho but he thinks he must commit suicide if he cannot use us as a crutch or whatever, i don't particularly understand anything..
EVERYTHING is such a mess.
Masturbation is just like some tiny part of all my problems. I mean I don't do drugs or anything despite all the calamities.................
I am deciding to use this diary as an alternative to porn. I can write a new entry every time I feel temptation.
also if you have actually read to the end of this congrats it must be rather unnerving. advice and tips are most welcome. Thank you for reading.....more voyages on the way!!