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Post by zerotolerance on Dec 18, 2007 19:21:52 GMT -5
I was reading this "mens" site, the laddy mag type per se. And there was an article promoting mb. I'm scared to quote so I'll summarize instead.
It said it was "perfectly acceptiable activity", "one of the FEW pleasures in life that was actually good for you". It suggested we FORGET all the negative connotations we were exposed to as kids and "take your doctors word for it: Masturbation is healthy". The *masturbation is healthy* part was a link. And the way it was worded, and punctuated, it seem to indicate that the DOCTOR said it was healthy and you could read about it by clicking the link.
Now I'm sure most men blow right by the link, because they are reading that, and already believing it. They don't need to see what the doctor said because they already know it all, blah blah blah.
Well I need to see what the "doctor" said, because I didn't believe a word of it, so I clicked it. And it didn't take me to a doctor's opinion at all. Instead it took me to another article written by another idiot for the site/mag, and the name and gist of the article was "how to get HER to mb too".
wth???
Isn't that just a typical pornographers trick? They pretend and imply they have all this medical data, in order to validate more stupidity, while knowing most ppl won't follow the link, esp if they already believe the content of the article comes from THE DOCTORs opinion. I guess they may figure that "girls" living with guys with the problems their p causes will likely follow those links though. So if we do, we can learn more about female mb. Or if guys follow it, they can learn how to try to manipulate us into mbing, instead of how to culivate healthy P Free sex lives.
What a crock of crap.
Well, I guess they couldn't present the truth, without showing their stupidity, or reducing their sales. So the link had to go somewhere. huh?
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Post by megan11 on Dec 18, 2007 19:31:22 GMT -5
Yeah, really nice sh-t!
Oh BTW ZT, MB isssssssssssssssssssssssssssss healthy, did you know that? In case you didnt i will let you know that its soooooooooooooooo healthy that there have been many times where my H's organ didnt work when we were "intimate"! My GOSH! Imagine THAT!
Oh and we cant forget the reason why that is, would you like to continue with the reason as to WHY his healthy organ doesnt work due to the healthy MB he has done for so long?
Continue away ZT!
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friendlygiant
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Post by friendlygiant on Dec 18, 2007 22:05:32 GMT -5
Pornography lies,plain and simple.
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Post by susan on Dec 18, 2007 22:18:52 GMT -5
The authors are no doubt, men.
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Post by LookingUp on Dec 18, 2007 23:05:18 GMT -5
The authors are no doubt men addicted to mb.
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Post by megan11 on Dec 18, 2007 23:10:57 GMT -5
The authors are no doubt men addicted to mb.  |
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Post by completelydone on Dec 19, 2007 0:03:44 GMT -5
Yeah well, what I think a lot of porn addicts have learned is too much mb breaks your weenie. They can't even do the deed, man! What kind of manliness is that? Whacking your wanky is manliness? By whose standards? Certainly not ours! We don't say, "Oh, honey when you whack yourself like that you are just SOOOO manly! You're just so amazing turning yourself on dear. Oh, don't worry about me, all that counts to make you manly is how long you can stroke that thing without bending it." Yeah right.  |
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Post by zerotolerance on Dec 19, 2007 5:22:05 GMT -5
Oh yea, this was movie not a mag, but still. I was watching Transformers, which I think is rated PG13. Anyway they made no less than 5 references to mb, including one with MOTHER saying it's okay, and then I lost count after that. wth? This is soo common and so BLANTANT. These ads are clearly aimed at our children. The movie companys and TV stations, and producers , etc, are plugging their p in their mainstream movies by having the characters use it, support it, or spew lies about it being good. Also, in one scene where I guy is dumping his buddy because he wants to give a girl a ride, the bud protest, and the main character asked by what rules or something like that, and the reply was "Bros before Hos"! The dude still dumbed him out though. And today I was typing orders and came across a customer email addy along the lines of trustnoho. I think we are heading towards a BIG backlash with all this crap. I'm sick of it! And we are definately growing in numbers every single day. The truth is coming out, whether users like it or not, imo.
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Post by tryintogetthru on Dec 19, 2007 8:18:16 GMT -5
All of TV is getting way too sexual. Did anyone see CSI last week? It was awful....my H admitted it was making him uncomfortable....and I was very uncomfortable. That's just not appropriate.
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Post by zerotolerance on Dec 19, 2007 15:04:07 GMT -5
I didn't see CSI. I rarely watch those type shows anymore because usually the dead are women who've been sexually assaulted and murdered.
I did watch last weeks episode of "Til Death", and that was another p/mb endorsement. I don't know the characters, but this young guy was going to watch p with his wife/or g/f, and two other guys were telling him he needed to watch it by himself first, because some p was for sharing and some was just for their private use. The follow up line was "and that's okay, because I don't judge". Well I DO! lol! Anyway the kid didn't have time to watch it, so the other two dudes were fighting over who would prescreen it for him, and the main character got the job. Anyway what really ticked me off was his wife ends up in the hospital, and he doesn't stay with her. Instead, he acts up, acts uncomfortable, until she tells him to go home, then he gleefully rushes off to watch the p tape. Later when she's home and discovers the tape, she wants to watch it with him, and they watch some of it, and it's not a problem whatsoever.
The message was when your wife is in the hospital it's a good time to p evidently, and she shouldn't have any problem with that but rather should come home and want to watch it with him. I know that myself, and many other shere, have experienced the "my h is home p-ng while I'm sick in the hospital", and I don't think ANY of us had the reaction they portrayed. But there is no doubt in my mind that episodes like that teach men to expect an objectified p-loving reaction from their wives when they pull this crap.
It was bad enough they were promoting p/mb, but to suggest doing it while your wife is in the hospital is just plain STUPID. FOX must really be deep into p, because I've noticed p/mb is endorsed in almost all their shows lately. I know it's on other channels too, but they take the cake imo. I dont' have cable so I'm limited to about 8 channels, and I'm about ready to throw my tv out the window. Because it's become nothing more than a p/mb idiot box.
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Post by Healing Rain on Dec 19, 2007 15:17:33 GMT -5
No I did not have that reaction when it happened to me.
I was in the hospital to have a mass removed from behind my heart. My H dropped me off at the hospital for my pre-op day (there was alot of pre-op for this surgery) and went home. My sister had our 3 month old baby (who is now 11). He called me, before he went to bed to tell me he would be there when I got out of surgery. He had no plan to be there for me before surgery, during the surgery... only after. We fought. I cried. He showed up about 10 minutes before I went under.
I crashed 3 times during that surgery. Twice while they were operating and once when I woke up during recovery and they were yanking me off the table throwing exray stuff up under me to figure out why I was not breathing. I still to this day can recall that incident with a vivid clarity thats scary. As if I was above my self watching it happen.
My H had spent the entire night porning. He came to the hospital on a porn high that was insane. He was not there for me during this very scary ordeal, life and death ordeal.. And even afterwards as I recovered in the hospital for 3 days. he went home and porned.
I did not come home all excited and happy to watch porn with him... I came home black and blue, in extreme pain... emotionally and physically. This was the first time I can clearly remember thinking I was alone in my marriage.
And no, I didn't know he had porned during this till last year and he finally disclosed.
So, They lied. As if that wasn't already apparent, LOL... just thought i'd put my truth there for all to see. Nothing says selfish and self absorbed more than a husband that wanks while his wife is in the hospital.
~Rain~
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Post by zerotolerance on Dec 19, 2007 15:44:36 GMT -5
Me too. I was laying all alone in a hospital bed myself when I realized my h wasn't there for me, and he never had been. My problems were reproductive in nature. I had a 10lb ovarian tumor, which was being removed via a C-section type surgery. And there is no doubt in my mind that the stress of dealing with his infidelity/p-ng and our HORRID sex life problems were at the core of why I had that tumor to begin with. And where was he all week while I was sick, why he was off p-ng some more, of course.
I also asked him not to leave the hospital while I was under. I asked him to stay there for me. I made him promise. My mom was there, and so were his parents. But as soon as I went under, he left with his parents to go get lunch off premises. They took a pager with them in case of a problem. FK THAT! I asked him to stay, and he promised he would. But when push came to shove he was too focused on pretending to be the "good son" around his parents. I wouldn't have minded him going to the cafeteria to get something to eat. But leaving the hospital, ARGHH!!!. That's just IRRESPONSIBLE. My mom was the only one there when I came out of it. And the next time I had surgery, he did the same thing, and the time after that, and even the last time. I had dental surgery this year, and he offered to take me. When I was finished and ready to go he wasn't in the office. I found him out in the car, he'd gone browsing the nearby stores and was just pulling up. Probably out looking for some p or some women to sexualize imo.
My h shows his butt the most when I am sick. He can't stand for his OBJECT to be malfunctioning. And he has the BIGGEST fear of abandonment I've ever seen. If I was that scared of being alone, I'd make dang sure I treated the people around me with respect. But nope, that's not what he does. He creates his abandonment, by being abusive, and then blames it out at others.
After I got home, he was taking off to take care of me. But did he take care of me, NOPE. He annoyed the heck out of me. I had a serious migraine headache, and he wanted to go blow the leaves off the roof. I begged him not to because I didn't think I could stand the noise. The leaves had been laying there for months, one more day wouldn't have mattered. But he went up there and blew, and blew, blew. That loud abnoxious blower sound just kept going and going and going and going, while I laid there and literally screamed at the top of my lungs in pain. That was 10 or 15 years ago. And to this day the sound of a blower going on and on can still make my ears ring, and my skin crawl.
When we need them the most, they are the least available. If that's not NARCISSISM in FULL BLOWN ACTION, I don't know what is. Selfish too the core, that's my h. I'll be having surgery again after the new year, and I've asked my son to take me this time. I don't have the date yet, so I don't know if he can get off work. If not, I may just call a cab to take me home. It's dental surgery, on the other half of my mouth. I wasn't fit to drive afterwards last time, so I know I won't be this time either. But my h uses crap like this as an excuse to lay out of work, and to p, not as a sincere gesture of concern and commitment. He's only committed to playing his pen!s imo.
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