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Post by justme123 on Dec 4, 2007 18:56:37 GMT -5
My husband did similar things when we were starting out years ago, He would say things that hinted in hopes that I would start the conversation. I had to decide If I would really leave if he looked at P again. I (for now) choose Honesty over integrity. I would rather have him tell me what he's doing, then live with dread at finding out he lied again. By saying (like i did once) that you will leave if he looks ONE MORE TIME, is asking for him to lie. especially if he has lied before. Instead it became: everyweek you go to counseling you have one more week with me. and if you look at porn I will not have sex with you. If I was going to leave I would have left then, I love him a lot, I love the way he is when he's not acting out, I am hoping one day HE will move back in permanently and his Evil Twin will move out.
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Post by completelydone on Dec 8, 2007 9:49:43 GMT -5
Do his actions support his words? That's the question.
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