Post by hugs4u002 on Dec 16, 2007 0:02:18 GMT -5
I don't know if there is a way to answer questions anonymously here but maybe someone could private message me with an answer to this question.......my s/o complains about an anus pain that not only wakes him with excrutiating pain at night but it stays for up to an hour. He usually will go sit on the toilet when he gets it but it doesn't produce anything. I always thought that he had some kind of bowel problem but with the discovery of his p and m addiction I have recently started wondering if he is hurting himself somehow. It really struck home last weekend, I was giving him a massage for his back pain and discovered a ball of TP in his butt crack, I joked and said you have a dingleberry which he asked what that is and then replied that he knew it was there, he puts it there....I can't imagine walking around like that...he would of course be too embarrassed to tell me the truth but my mind is not able to be quiet about this.
I know this would be hard to post on but can anyone shed some light on this for me? Please. Thank you so much if you have the courage to answer, I understand that this is a very difficult subject but it is very disturbing to me as you can imagine.
I know this would be hard to post on but can anyone shed some light on this for me? Please. Thank you so much if you have the courage to answer, I understand that this is a very difficult subject but it is very disturbing to me as you can imagine.
