Post by Karahma123 on Dec 21, 2007 2:04:49 GMT -5
Like my previous posts, after two years of supposedly being "clean" my husband got caught this past week and has been confessing big time. Two years worth, so it's gotta be a lot, right?
Well each night he ends it with, that's all there is, I promise, I swear. That's it!
So today he confesses a few other things, like movies we've watched, he'd go and re-watch s* scenes.
The big one tonight though, was very upsetting. I belong to several woman's groups and we have online forums. It's very private and not open to the public.. to gain entrance you have to have known several members and be verified over the phone to get passwords. My husband just told me he was searching through this website and looking at pictures OF MY FRIENDS and m*-ing to them.
Now I feel like the only people I could turn to about this have been violated and objectified as well. I couldn't possibly tell them because they'd hate my husband.
Anyways, long story short, my husband goes through this cycle where he confesses to me, is accountable to me, then he'll swear that's it. Then two days, or two hours, maybe even 20 minutes later he'll come back to me, apologize, tell me that really wasn't it, and unload a bunch of other mind boggling behaviors to me.
Does anyone else's husband do this to them? Is it a pathological liar type thing, or does he really have zero empathy for me and my feelings?
Well each night he ends it with, that's all there is, I promise, I swear. That's it!
So today he confesses a few other things, like movies we've watched, he'd go and re-watch s* scenes.
The big one tonight though, was very upsetting. I belong to several woman's groups and we have online forums. It's very private and not open to the public.. to gain entrance you have to have known several members and be verified over the phone to get passwords. My husband just told me he was searching through this website and looking at pictures OF MY FRIENDS and m*-ing to them.
Now I feel like the only people I could turn to about this have been violated and objectified as well. I couldn't possibly tell them because they'd hate my husband.
Anyways, long story short, my husband goes through this cycle where he confesses to me, is accountable to me, then he'll swear that's it. Then two days, or two hours, maybe even 20 minutes later he'll come back to me, apologize, tell me that really wasn't it, and unload a bunch of other mind boggling behaviors to me.
Does anyone else's husband do this to them? Is it a pathological liar type thing, or does he really have zero empathy for me and my feelings?
