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Dec 19, 2007 0:04:01 GMT -5
Post by graham27 on Dec 19, 2007 0:04:01 GMT -5
hi im graham and im afraid im becoming a porn addict im frightened i want a better life i want to talk to god and stop this
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Dec 19, 2007 2:06:56 GMT -5
Post by justuseyourhead on Dec 19, 2007 2:06:56 GMT -5
Graham,
I am new too, and feel the same way. I am on day three. I made a declaration to watch no P and not to MB. I feel like I am in the driver's seat for the first time in a decade. We can navigate this new journey together and with all of these awesome people. A better life is near.
JUYH
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anew
Junior Member
"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, therefore, is not an act but a habit." - Aristotle
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Dec 19, 2007 3:42:29 GMT -5
Post by anew on Dec 19, 2007 3:42:29 GMT -5
I graham.
I am fairly new here as well (in terms of actively posting here), and I understand the way you feel - my first posts were nothing more than checking in in the 100 days thread without saying anything - I was too apprehensive to post anything.
You have made a series of good decisions in coming here - in understanding you may have a problem, in wanting a better life and in finding a place that can be extremely helpful, if you let it be.
My advise to you now is to seize upon the moment you have set up: post again, and again and again, find a thread or a circle full of people who you feel genuinely help your recovery. Maybye set up a journal.
But definitely continue working at your recovery - set up a plan of both things you will change on the internet (such as setting up a filter - K9 filter works very well for me), limiting the time you spend here, etc.
If you think a network in real life will help you - friends, a church circle or a SA group then work at setting one up - there are people here who will help you with this. I don't know to much about this.
Anyways, welcome here - as you continue to post and talk, you will find your burden ease a little.
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yellowdart221
New Member
Breaking the Barrier one step at a time.
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Dec 19, 2007 16:31:15 GMT -5
Post by yellowdart221 on Dec 19, 2007 16:31:15 GMT -5
Welcome, I use to be a member here but i hadn't gotten on in so long i forgot my password and username. I've been here for a while.
If your wanting some help or advice we all can help the best we can. A lot of us here believe in god also.
If there is something i should tell you about this site is everyone here is great, they will all help you out the best they can with any question you've got to ask. Feel Free to ask any question you have no matter if you think it is stupid or not. Everyone here is here to help, if your feeling weak and are afraid your about to look at P or might MB then come here and just start looking amongst the threads.
You can start a daily journal and type how you feel and how your doing day to day and ask for advice. You can also join the 100 Days Goal and they will keep track of how long you've been abstinent.
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