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Support Board :: General :: General Discussion Board :: Covenant Eyes Accountability Partners Author Topic: Covenant Eyes Accountability Partners (Read 8,219 times) Webmaster Administrator member is offline Click the house icon below to learn more about "Ten Keys" Joined: Feb 2003 Posts: 1,276 Covenant Eyes Accountability Partners « Thread Started on Sept 9, 2006, 8:55am » As you know, this site strongly encourages the use of Covenant Eyes. It is a tool to help eliminate anonymity on the Internet by sending a very effective usage report to an accountability partner. Many people find it to be an incredible part of their sobriety plan. The best accountability partners are those to whom you are truly accountable - a trusted friend, a religious leader, a family member such as a spouse or parent. However, sometimes people new to recovery want to get started using Covenant Eyes, but don't have someone they're comfortable asking to be their accountability partner. Once in a while, I will help a newbie out and agree to receive their reports. You don't need to subscribe to Covenant Eyes to be an accountability partner. If others would be willing to to help a newbie out by being an accountability partner, please let me know through PM and I'll point an occassional newbie your way. The only warning I would add is that if someone you are monitoring does go to a lot of porn sites, your report will have links to those sites. You SHOULD NOT ever visit a high scoring site on the reports. If this would be triggering for you, it may be best that you not volunteer. However, if seeing your accountability partner's porn use leads you to want to help them be more accountable and encourage them in their recovery, you may want to consider it. These requests don't happen too frequently, but I always try to be helpful when I receive them. If you are looking for an accountability partner, please click on "Webmaster" in the column on the right and send me a Personal Message. Wes Link to Post - Back to Top   Logged Read what others are saying about Ten Keys to Breaking Pornography Addiction Affirmations: "I never use porn or masturbate now." "I never choose to lust now." Mary Worth & Me: A dumb blog dugmeister New Member member is offline Joined: Mar 2007 Gender: Male Posts: 3 Location: Iowa Re: Covenant Eyes Accountability Partners « Reply #1 on Mar 13, 2007, 1:17pm » I am looking for an accountabilty partner. « Last Edit: Mar 14, 2007, 4:20pm by Webmaster » Link to Post - Back to Top   Logged Webmaster Administrator member is offline Click the house icon below to learn more about "Ten Keys" Joined: Feb 2003 Posts: 1,276 Re: Covenant Eyes Accountability Partners « Reply #2 on Mar 14, 2007, 4:20pm » dugmeister, I've deleted your email address just for your own privacy. You might want to send a PM to either "kevin" or "hurtmylove." All have signed up to serve as accountability partners here. « Last Edit: Apr 18, 2007, 8:08am by Webmaster » Link to Post - Back to Top   Logged Read what others are saying about Ten Keys to Breaking Pornography Addiction Affirmations: "I never use porn or masturbate now." "I never choose to lust now." Mary Worth & Me: A dumb blog time2stop New Member member is offline Joined: Mar 2007 Gender: Male Posts: 1 Re: Covenant Eyes Accountability Partners « Reply #3 on Mar 29, 2007, 11:05am » I am new here and am looking for an accountability partner. Link to Post - Back to Top   Logged asdf100 New Member member is offline Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 1 Re: Covenant Eyes Accountability Partners « Reply #4 on Jul 9, 2007, 4:14pm » Im looking for an accountability partner. If you can help please email me at [email address removed for security purposes by webmaster - you may send him a PM if you like] « Last Edit: Jul 9, 2007, 5:48pm by Webmaster » Link to Post - Back to Top   Logged repub117 New Member member is offline Joined: Jul 2007 Posts: 1 Re: Covenant Eyes Accountability Partners « Reply #5 on Jul 10, 2007, 11:31pm » Im looking for an accountability partner Link to Post - Back to Top   Logged takingcontrol New Member member is offline Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 2 Re: Covenant Eyes Accountability Partners « Reply #6 on Sept 2, 2007, 11:49am » Hi guys, New member looking for accountability partner, anyone need one?? Link to Post - Back to Top   Logged heyyoutoo Full Member member is offline Joined: Aug 2007 Posts: 115 Re: Covenant Eyes Accountability Partners « Reply #7 on Sept 8, 2007, 3:09pm » hey takingcontrol i need an accountabiltiy partner, i also asked someone called t but the more the merrier. i have a journal started in journal forum where you can reach me Link to Post - Back to Top   Logged rmbohanek New Member member is offline Joined: Dec 2007 Posts: 21 Re: Covenant Eyes Accountability Partners « Reply #8 on Dec 3, 2007, 3:54pm » New member looking for accountability partner. Just installed CE. Thanks, B Link to Post - Back to Top   Logged straightpepperdiet Junior Member member is offline Joined: Nov 2007 Gender: Male Posts: 79 Re: Covenant Eyes Accountability Partners « Reply #9 on Dec 3, 2007, 6:08pm » CE is good for married couples or couples in a relationship. It doesn't work for single addicts like myself because I tried it a year ago and I had my SA sponsor on it and two close friends. I lasted 12 days and I decided to look at internet p*rn where I disconnected CE from my computer. Of course, my accountability friends knew since CE sent them a notice but I didn't care cuz I'm single. Now if I were married I wouldn't have done it, because my wife would be upset and would probably leave me. As far as I'm concerned, single addicts are more worse off than married addicts because we are accountable to no one which could lead us to greater danger, at least the married addicts have their wives to keep them in line. I'm sure you married addicts are gonna think this is BS and that it's my addict talking but how would you know since you're not single? « Last Edit: Dec 3, 2007, 6:09pm by straightpepperdiet » Link to Post - Back to Top   Logged Banned by webmaster 12/24/07 cammy Full Member member is offline Joined: Oct 2007 Gender: Male Posts: 221 Location: up north Re: Covenant Eyes Accountability Partners « Reply #10 on Dec 3, 2007, 6:33pm » I'll take a shot at your question. I agree that as a married guy I have a built in incentive to quit p. I also have a built in consequence that you do not yet have. Frankly I can lose it all, and have, as this is my second marriage. At the most shallow level - imagine whatever you have gained financially, everything now, cut in half. Your house, can you afford to buy it again and keep the payments as well as double? Then there is the empotional turmopil and public scrutiny. Divorces are public record as well as the reasons for them. These are just the beginning consequences I might face. The rest is much worse. Yes, I choose to use these as a reason to stop. However, I face an end game that you do not. You got anyone who wants to take your kids? You ever faced that kind of pressure in your life? gimme a break. I would never say that your situation is better or worse than mine. My preference is you offer me a similar courtesy. Link to Post - Back to Top   Logged Forum Jump--------------------» Home--------------------» General--------------------- General Discussion Board --- Milestones & Anniversaries- Recovering Addicts Forum- Partners Forum- Recovery Journals- Accountability Circles